德康Mr 发表于 2025-12-9 16:28

曾老说:你如何判断一个人有没有福气？

<!----><style type="text/css">html{font-size:375%}</style><link href="https://pic.app.ytbbs.com/static/publish/css/style.css?v=20240712" rel="stylesheet" position="1" data-qf-origin="/static/publish/css/style.css?v=20240712"><!--    付费贴-->    <div class="preview_article ">            <!---->    <p>曾仕强教授说：&ldquo;一个人有没有福气，就看他吃饭吃得干不干净。有些人吃饭桌子上到处都是饭渣，碗里也不吃干净，这样的人福报不深，因为剩饭就等于漏福。相反的有些人吃饭，桌子上干干净净，碗里也干干净净，那么他的福报就一定很深。</p><p>曾仕强教授这话，哪是说吃饭？分明是在讲做人的本分。饭桌上的干净，藏着对日子的敬意&mdash;&mdash;一粒米从播种到上桌，经了多少手？</p><p>碗里的剩饭，看似小事，其实是把&ldquo;不珍惜&rdquo;挂在了脸上。就像老辈人总说&ldquo;糟蹋粮食亏良心&rdquo;，不是迷信，是怕那份轻慢久了，心就变糙了。</p><p>谁没见过这样的场景？孩子把不爱吃的菜扒得满桌都是，大人笑着说&ldquo;没事&rdquo;；聚餐时盘子里剩大半，结账时眼睛都不眨。我们总觉得&ldquo;日子好了，不在乎这点&rdquo;，却忘了：对食物敷衍的人，往往也对生活潦草&mdash;&mdash;工作能混就混，感情能凑就凑，把&ldquo;差不多&rdquo;当成了口头禅。</p><p>正如《朱子家训》说&ldquo;一粥一饭，当思来处不易&rdquo;，珍惜粮食从不是穷日子的讲究，是富日子里该守的本分。碗里干净了，心才会踏实；对小事认真了，福气自然往怀里钻。能把一碗饭吃干净的人，日子也差不到哪去&mdash;&mdash;尊重每粒米，就是在攒自己的福。</p><p class="qf_image big noneditable" contenteditable="false"><img src="https://pic.app.ytbbs.com/forum/20251209162823front2_0_1694422_Fr108yTBX4rHmAIZqiIxHXXD0bu8.jpg?watermark/3/text/QOW-t-W6t01y/fontsize/400/dissolve/80/gravity/South/fill/IzM2MzYzYQ==/font/5b6u6L2v6ZuF6buR/dx/61/dy/16/image/aHR0cDovL3BpYy5hcHAueXRiYnMuY29tL3dhdGVyX2ltZ18yMDE4MTEyNl80NTEuanBn/dissolve/80/gravity/South/dx/-34/dy/10" alt="" width="540" height="724" data-qf-origin="forum/20251209162823front2_0_1694422_Fr108yTBX4rHmAIZqiIxHXXD0bu8.jpg?watermark/3/text/QOW-t-W6t01y/fontsize/400/dissolve/80/gravity/South/fill/IzM2MzYzYQ==/font/5b6u6L2v6ZuF6buR/dx/61/dy/16/image/aHR0cDovL3BpYy5hcHAueXRiYnMuY29tL3dhdGVyX2ltZ18yMDE4MTEyNl80NTEuanBn/dissolve/80/gravity/South/dx/-34/dy/10" /></p><p class="empty_paragraph">&nbsp;</p><p class="qf_image big noneditable" contenteditable="false"><img src="https://pic.app.ytbbs.com/forum/20251209162823front2_0_1694422_Ft6Sq8NevjjpoxZdwC5HSTMjy4Ll.jpg?watermark/3/text/QOW-t-W6t01y/fontsize/400/dissolve/80/gravity/South/fill/IzM2MzYzYQ==/font/5b6u6L2v6ZuF6buR/dx/61/dy/16/image/aHR0cDovL3BpYy5hcHAueXRiYnMuY29tL3dhdGVyX2ltZ18yMDE4MTEyNl80NTEuanBn/dissolve/80/gravity/South/dx/-34/dy/10" alt="" width="720" height="1260" data-qf-origin="forum/20251209162823front2_0_1694422_Ft6Sq8NevjjpoxZdwC5HSTMjy4Ll.jpg?watermark/3/text/QOW-t-W6t01y/fontsize/400/dissolve/80/gravity/South/fill/IzM2MzYzYQ==/font/5b6u6L2v6ZuF6buR/dx/61/dy/16/image/aHR0cDovL3BpYy5hcHAueXRiYnMuY29tL3dhdGVyX2ltZ18yMDE4MTEyNl80NTEuanBn/dissolve/80/gravity/South/dx/-34/dy/10" /></p><p class="empty_paragraph">&nbsp;</p><p class="qf_image big noneditable" contenteditable="false"><img src="https://pic.app.ytbbs.com/forum/20251209162823front2_0_1694422_FmcSLsmaEmhi4CQ-XdUTYs3rpXKy.jpg?watermark/3/text/QOW-t-W6t01y/fontsize/400/dissolve/80/gravity/South/fill/IzM2MzYzYQ==/font/5b6u6L2v6ZuF6buR/dx/61/dy/16/image/aHR0cDovL3BpYy5hcHAueXRiYnMuY29tL3dhdGVyX2ltZ18yMDE4MTEyNl80NTEuanBn/dissolve/80/gravity/South/dx/-34/dy/10" alt="" width="1028" height="1808" data-qf-origin="forum/20251209162823front2_0_1694422_FmcSLsmaEmhi4CQ-XdUTYs3rpXKy.jpg?watermark/3/text/QOW-t-W6t01y/fontsize/400/dissolve/80/gravity/South/fill/IzM2MzYzYQ==/font/5b6u6L2v6ZuF6buR/dx/61/dy/16/image/aHR0cDovL3BpYy5hcHAueXRiYnMuY29tL3dhdGVyX2ltZ18yMDE4MTEyNl80NTEuanBn/dissolve/80/gravity/South/dx/-34/dy/10" /></p><p>&nbsp;</p>    <!----></div>            

dsjkc 发表于 2025-12-9 16:55

勤俭节约是美德！

磁山地产小闫 发表于 2025-12-9 17:08

来人间是修炼

夜色咖啡 发表于 2025-12-9 19:07

小时候就有灶马老爷的故事

xxy21 发表于 2025-12-9 19:28

dsjkc 发表于 2025-12-9 16:55
勤俭节约是美德！

和勤俭节约没啥太大关系，家教有很大关系。我小时候不缺吃的，甚至可以说比相当大部分人都吃得好，不过也养成不留一粒米的习惯。我对象家倒是穷了，讲真的都和猪一样不管菜还是饭碗留的全是底儿，我看着就烦躁，后来我直接和我对象说想让我刷碗，必须把碗底儿清空，不然你就自己刷，后来能强点了。

REDTULIP99 发表于 2025-12-10 06:57

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